Who Knows You Before You Need Them
An honest look at your relationships with government and with the communities you work in.
Before You Start
Most organizations put their energy into the work itself, and much less into the relationships around it. Then something happens. A funding decision, a policy change, a bad week in the community, and suddenly the phone call you've never made is the one you need to make today.
This takes about ten minutes. There's no score at the end, and nothing here is a test. What you get back is a plain read of where you already have relationships, where there is room to build some, and what the smallest useful next step looks like.
Answer The Way Things Actually Are
Nobody sees this but you. Your answers never leave this page. Nothing is saved, stored, or sent anywhere, so answer what's true rather than what should be true. Almost everyone has gaps in here, and the gaps are the whole point.
Which One Sounds Most Like This Year?
Pick one. It changes a note or two at the end, and you can skip it if none of them fit.
Part One: Who You Are Actually Talking To
There are three levels of government, and each one has its own interests and its own timing. A lot of wasted effort comes from asking exactly the right question at exactly the wrong level.
Part Two: Known Before You Need Anything
Government doesn't always pick the best organization. It picks the one it already knows. This part is about whether you're that organization yet.
Part Three: Their Words, Not Yours
The same work can sound like a small request or a national priority, depending entirely on whose vocabulary you use to describe it.
Part Four: Built With People, Not For Them
People show up for something that feels like theirs. This part is about who helps shape the work, and who gets to share the credit for it.
Part Five: When It Gets Hard
Anger is not a sign that engagement failed. It's people telling you they still think you're worth talking to. The day they go quiet is the day you've lost them.
What Your Answers Show
Three Things For This Quarter
Something small that you actually finish will do more for you than something large and vague, every single time.
What A Year Of This Actually Looks Like
You don't need a government relations department or a lobbyist. This is what the work actually looks like for a busy team with no spare capacity. We call it The 30-Minute Quarter.
| When | The One Thing You Do | Time |
|---|---|---|
| Q1 | One coffee with a local government contact. Introduce yourself, share what you are seeing in the community, and ask for nothing at all. | 30 min |
| Q2 | One email after an announcement that touches your work. Say how it affects the people you serve, and offer your read on it. | 15 min |
| Q3 | One invitation to visit. Let them see the operation and meet someone whose life your work changed. They remember this one for years. | 30 min |
| Q4 | One year-end note with your numbers. Give them something they can repeat in a meeting you are not in. | 15 min |
Ideas To Consider
From Known To Trusted
Being known means you are on a list somewhere. Being trusted means you are the person somebody phones before a decision is final. What moves you from the first to the second is small, ordinary contact at times when you want nothing at all.
Listen, Accept, Build
This one is for the hard rooms. Listen all the way to the end without correcting the facts or defending the policy. Accept by saying the true hard thing first, out loud, in one accurate sentence. Build only then, with one concrete commitment that has a date and a name attached. It works at a board table, in a condo lobby, and at a kitchen table.
Build It With Them, Not For Them
You could translate your material into another language and call it outreach. It works far better to partner with the people who are already trusted, hold the event in their space, and let them open it. When people share the win, they carry your message farther than you ever could on your own.
And if you'd rather not do this part alone, that's what we do. Candour works alongside organizations of every size on community consultation, government relations, and reputation. Some are settlement agencies with eleven staff. Some are boards of trade, municipalities, and companies working through a project a community has strong feelings about. The same principles hold in all of those rooms.
When you're ready for a conversation: ask@candour.works
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Stakeholder And Reputation · Self-Check · v1 · July 2026
Educational information for organizations working with government and communities, not legal advice. Your answers stay on this page.